![]() And this time, when he does, she becomes pregnant.Īnd yet, placing the blame on Daphne’s mother for not having “The Talk” doesn’t account for the full story. That delineation - between love as a passive act and love as an ongoing action - allows Daphne to realize she needs to put in a little more effort if she wants her duke to finally let loose inside her. She thus becomes the target of Daphne’s ire about how unprepared she finds herself, once married.ĭaphne’s mother does redeem herself by the end of the series, through advice that provides much-needed perspective about the emotional demands of marriage: that you have to choose to love your partner, every day. ![]() From the mechanics of sexual intercourse and birthing to - maybe more importantly - what we owe each other in a romantic relationship, Daphne is left clueless. The Viscountess Bridgerton doesn’t prepare Daphne at all for what it actually means to have an intimate relationship. Both characters have an outsized impact on the journey of our protagonist, proving that while men might have power on paper, it’s the women who drive this story.Īlong the way, Bridgerton posits that the characters’ varying degrees of experience depend largely on how they were raised. First, there’s the queen’s vision of courtship, which relies on traditional values then, there’s Danbury’s more nuanced understanding of what a marriage truly is. Lady Danbury and Queen Charlotte provide the various frameworks for Daphne to move through. Even if she and Simon never figure it out, she (and we) realizes that it’ll be okay because she has the support of a community of women experiencing something similar. Even though it’s a darker vision of her future - surely Daphne envisioned herself partying with her husband, not with a group of women who appear to hate theirs - the promise of camaraderie is enough to spark a glimmer of hope. Everyone else, it seems, has complaints about their own husbands, and the problems Daphne thought she was all alone with appear to be universal. But Danbury’s support of their union doesn’t mean she’s blind to how hard it is, and when she sees Daphne struggling, she brings her into a world that Daphne hadn’t even imagined: the world of married women. She’s also the number one champion of his relationship with Daphne, plotting to make it happen from the beginning. As Simon’s stand-in mother, after his own mother dies, Lady Danbury steps in to raise him, protecting him from his abusive father. It’s around this time that Lady Danbury invites Daphne to a married-women-only party. He picks and chooses what to tell her in a way that serves himself. ![]() The little information she does have comes from Simon, though ultimately he uses her inexperience to his advantage and allows her to think that he is unable to have children (versus simply not wanting them). There’s a mysterious void where the man she married should be, and she’s held back from fully understanding the whole picture of what she’s dealing with simply because she has no foundational knowledge. When they do get married, she quickly finds herself isolated and lonely in his enormous estate. Her sexual naïvete is a symptom of the times, and it also plays into the uneven power dynamic in her relationship with Simon, whose sexual knowledge gives him more power than Daphne.Īnd in a time when women are already completely disempowered, this extreme imbalance means he’s able to manipulate her easily. ![]() In fact, it’s their ongoing, bottomless want for each other that motivates them to keep trying to save the relationship, even when things take several dark twists.ĭaphne’s navigation of her newfound sexuality, foregrounded by the courtship scene of Regency London, makes for a cringingly funny storyline, where Daphne’s sexual awakening is at once painful, wondrous, and deeply relatable. Together, they get, well, an awfully rocky start to a rushed marriage, saved only by an animalistic physical attraction that won’t quit. The duke knows how to have sex but not how to love Daphne knows how to love but not how to have sex. Yet Daphne knows so little about what’s in store for her.Īs for what Daphne does know? That she feels attracted to one duke - Simon Basset. There’s a king, somewhere, but in the tradition of young girls making their debuts in court, it’s the queen’s word that deems Daphne “the diamond” of the season. Based on the real Queen Charlotte, who may have been mixed-race, this character’s presence and power defy the norms of Regency England here in the world of Bridgerton, race does not preclude status, though gender does. Bridgerton’s Queen Charlotte presides with a kind of omnipotent grace. ![]()
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